Welcome You Have Come to The Right Place.
Are you living as the person you most want be? Do you engage in work you find interesting, creative, fun, and meaningful? Do your friendships provide you with the level of listening, empathy, caring, affection, and support you desire? Are you and your spouse or partner emotionally close, intimate, and glad you are still together? Do you know who you really are, why you’re here, and what you most want to experience or accomplish during the rest of your life? If your answers to any of these questions is a definite no, then you have come to the right place. I will provide you with psychotherapy designed to help you live a full and authentic life without the need to please others, depend on others to feel valuable or fake feeling OK to hide inner pain. Learn how to shift from depression to expression, from anxious worrier to calm presence, from stagnation to aliveness, from helplessness to agency, from feeling alien to knowing you have a right to be here, and from chronic self-doubt to healthy self-pride. Human beings are blessed with free will and a brain that can reorganize itself to support new perspectives, attitudes, and behaviors. If you will trust in me and the change process of psychotherapy there are no limits to what you can do. I offer individual therapy, couples counseling, and online men’s groups. Please contact me with any questions.
Unblock the Obstacles to Achievement, Self-Esteem, and Happiness
We humans are born with the potential to be extraordinary and to live fully with purpose, meaning, passion, creativity, achievement, friendship, love, play, and joy.
Yet so many of us get disconnected from our potential for years, even decades, by the traumas we experience and how we interpret them. We stop believing there is good in us or others. We engage in negative self-talk that makes us feel small, incapable, unworthy, even unlovable. We see only our shortcomings and become blind to our strengths.
The miracle of psychotherapy is that it can reconnect you with all that is good in and around you while restoring your faith in yourself and humanity. The existence that felt so empty and dark becomes full and bright once again.
Journey into Hidden Childhood Programming that has Made Life Satisfaction Seem Impossible and Wake Up to Your Power
When we are children our parents program our highly impressionable brains in two ways. First, by how well or poorly they bond with us, mirror our worth, and treat us relative to our siblings. Second, by how they filter and apply the beliefs and values of ancestors, society, and culture. Children of parents who make them feel safe, secure, loved, and valued are likely to enter adulthood with good self-esteem and a belief in their own competence. Children who are abused, invalidated or neglected or who live in chaotic homes marked by shouting and violence, are likely to suffer from fear, anxiety, depression, and the negative consequences of coping mechanisms like smoking, drinking, drugging, non-lethal self-harm, etc. It’s not that the parents of maltreated children didn’t love them. Usually these parents were burdened by medical condition, personal trauma or a mental illness such as bipolar, persistent depression, a personality disorder, anger issues, alcoholism or addiction.
Although the past is far from meaningless it does not determine our futures. The brain is the only organ that can change itself by will power, courage, visioning, taking risks, and developing new habits. The therapeutic relationship is so very valuable because it is designed to provide clients with the trust, safety, and freedom of thought and emotion required for change. As your therapist I will give you these things and I will also give you the affirmation, validation, and encouragement that will support you in changing.
The Good News Is That Healing is Always Possible
Whether you have suffered for a few years, many years, or a lifetime, real and permanent healing can occur in a caring, nonjudgmental, empathic, and supportive therapeutic relationship.
I have helped many clients overcome the symptoms and burdens of trauma, PTSD, depression, anxiety, ADHD, perfectionism and procrastination, co-dependency, fear of rejection, imposter syndrome, and relationship problems.
You don’t have to keep living in the shadows. It’s time to start living your best life openly celebrating the change.
It’s time to stop procrastinating and get help.
You don’t have to keep trudging through this
nightmare alone.
It’s time to come in from the cold, find a true ally,
and triumph over your suffering.
Hi, I’m Harvey.
And I am here for you.
Nothing would bring me more satisfaction than seeing you healed of your pain; able to savor life’s precious moments; and ready to actively engage with family, friends, and work again!
In a safe and judgment-free space, you’ll learn proven techniques for reducing your anxiety, depression, and despair.
Together, we’ll help you reconnect with your loved ones and become the nurturing, present parent your children deserve.
It’s time to envision a better, happier, more meaningful existence and take the practical steps to create it brick by brick.
Come in from the cold, find a true ally, and triumph over your suffering.
What I Offer
A better life is possible.
Regain your zest for life and face each day with energy, motivation, and enthusiasm.
Don’t waste another moment.